Exactly, it’s counter-productive to blame individuals for doing the best they know how in a broken system.

lemmy.ml is fine

The claim is that it is full of tankies. In fact what you’ll find is that instead of a small number of obnoxious teenagers with a liberal world view making obnoxious comments you’ll have a small number of obnoxious teenagers with a leftist world view making obnoxious comments.

People also claim that moderation is an issue on some communities, but hey, it’s all federated, jump across elsewhere.

Hatred for lemmy.ml is just an echo chamber quirk.

Escalating conflict with someone with delusions of persecution is exactly the wrong thing to do.

Not knowing the system in the UK means I can’t give very good specific advice. You may be able to contact a local mental health network and there is a good chance they will know him. Let them know what is going on in as much detail as possible and suggest that he is increasingly agitated and alienating himself from the community. It sounds like this gentleman needs a conpulsory treatment order or whatever the UK equivalent is.