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Cake day: January 28th, 2025

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  • I wasn’t technically married, but after 10 years it was like it.

    Anyway, technically i ended it by cheating on her, but in retrospective she had’t been fulfulling her part of the relationship on oh so many levels, and i was looking (cowardly) for a way out. So the cheat become my actual wife and we have been happy ever after.

    It’s been the best change in my life ever. but my knees don’t always agree.

    As a life lesson, you need to make experience. You need to know what you want from life, and you need to learn how to care for somebody. Before these three checks are green, your relaitonships will not be lifelong or positive. Break from bad relaitonships and learn from them, but most of all, learn from yourself. Find out who you are, then start grow a couple. Find a better person than you are as your SO, learn together and grow together.

    and, most of all, do not follow advice from strangers on the net.










  • Once upon a time, when airplanes where not a thing and real time communication implied a distance that you can scream to… When only snail mail or telegraph where available and people traveled by boat and train…

    You would never experience jet lag nor have the problem of knowing if people far away was ssleeping or not.

    In this scenario, when time was standardized and organized, it only made sense that everybody would wake up and go to bed at the same time no matter where their lived (more or less, of course ,you get the meaning). Thats when time zones where defined, so that people traveling by boat or train would keep waking up day after day at the same time of the day.

    Without time zones, life would be quite difficult to organize and understand. Ask to the Chinese, that live in the Beijing timezone in a country spanning three time zones. They keep using mixed local and Beijing times… And catching trains and airplanes is a mess for this reason…

    No, timezones are really needed. Not having them would be weird and messy.