I’ve been using tape libraries since the early 2000’s and I agree I wouldn’t be bothered to have to deal with them in my homelab. Just having to manage rotations and so on… uuuugh no thanks.

Have you tried Immich? It runs local and is open source. I haven’t yet but was planning to soon as I have the same struggle

Lavender Menace was an informal group of lesbian radical feminists formed to protest the exclusion of lesbians and their issues from the feminist movement at the Second Congress to Unite Women in New York City on May 1, 1970. Members included Karla Jay, Martha Shelley, Rita Mae Brown, Lois Hart, Barbara Love, Ellen Shumsky, Artemis March, Cynthia Funk, Linda Rhodes, Arlene Kushner, Ellen Broidy, and Michela Griffo,[1][2] and were mostly members of the Gay Liberation Front (GLF) and the National Organization for Women (NOW).[3] They later became the Radicalesbians.[2]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lavender_Menace