I don’t know of it’s normal but you are not alone.

I don’t fit good in my country’s culture.

I do not live in a English speaking country. And my mother tongue is not english.

I still sometimes think in English. As I use it a lot.

What I mean is that the level of pain would be similar if he would have not cheated and would just have left her, and after leaving her he would have started another relationship. No cheating at all involved.

The article you linked states that many people have trouble sleeping if they do exercise before going to bed, because the physiological response of doing exercise activates the body in a way that makes it harder to sleep for a while and recommend doing it a couple of hours before.

No one says the opposite. I’m a very active person.

Just not at night right before going to bed. I feel like that could lead to bad quality of sleep.

Second this. Keep calling. 8 months at a time… With 84 years it’s not that many times isn’t it?

Why crunches before bed? Physical exercise before going to bed seems like insomnia recipe.

Is it not better to do it in the morning or the afternoon?

He is getting a divorce.

You need to put yourself in both perspectives. It’s not so easy to make such a big change in life without being sure first, that’s why people tend to already have met other one to love before leaving their current partner .

Anyway, it would not be easier for the leaved part to accept it. Normally the pain tends to come for the fact that someone who you loves, and that you think they love you back, no longer loves you. The temporal fact that their new relationship overlaps a little with the time before leaving you does not ease much the pain.

Because, let’s be real, is not like people don’t want to be cheated, it’s that people, reasonably, don’t want their partner to leave them. Cheating is just the realization of this leaving. But you cannot force love on someone, of they don’t love you, they just don’t.

If a relationship is broken, I don’t really see cheating as a cause, more like a symptom.

Ideally people will be more brave and just end things as soon as they feel no love. But that’s a little too utopic in my humble opinion. And being so harsh on people who didn’t manage to be as brave as to end something to be alone instead of ending things when they have sure they are not going to be alone is not that justified from my point of view.

Yeah it is unfair for the other part who has “lost” time in a failed relationship and could be have been looking for other partners sooner, as their SO is doing. But a failed relationship is usually evident from both sides equally, so at some point is also their own fault for clinging themselves to a death relationship.

Things would change if there’s manipulations, abusive behavior or harm is being done on purpose of course. But there’s no evidence that it is the case here. In fact the only harm tried to do in purpose here comes from the mother asking the son to break relationships with his father just to make him suffer.

Tell me one thing.

Is that much better to find out that your husband is leaving you for other person by his word before it happens rather than a time after it happened by yourself?

For my understanding most of the pain comes not for the lie, but for the fact that the people you love no longer loves you back and it’s leaving you. And you cannot force love or cohabitation to anyone.

life is complex. You really cannot assume he is a piece of shit just based on the information we have.

Was their marriage good? Was he happy with his life? If not, is he a piece of shit for wanting to live a happy life in the little time we have on this world? Is other person entitled to chain you to an unhappy life?

He may or may not be a piece of shit, I wouldn’t know.

Isn’t there already a mobile app?

Developers can focus on whatever they seem appropriate.

But I think content discover and community (lack of) are the biggest issues of peertube right now.

I hop once in a while to the main peertube site and I can never find anything remotely interesting to watch. There may be some good content, but it’s impossible to find.

I second the N100. It’s what I use and it’s ridiculously powerful for the small amount of power it drains. And barely needs refrigeration.

When I go lunch I go home for the day. I only work in the morning.

So, no need of alcohol to cope with overwork.